plz help need advice

[sinvore]

me and my wife found each other online i am a sub she is a Dom it was 10 years ago now we have a child and much has changed she is my Dom and will always be but i can't even were my collar any more we don't want our child to be warped or anything all i wish for is to be on my knees at her feet worshiping her but that never happens she works a full time job i go to school and am unemployed i cant find a job and we fight alot i am trying to change things i do most of the cooking and cleaning and take care of our child as my wife works night stress is high and we spend little time together and even less time alone we don't have much sex mostly my fault we have talked about a chastity device for me in the past and did not do it then 6 years ago i think now i am thinking of getting The Houdini Chastity Tube but i don't want to Top the Dom. witch i think i might be doing I need some advice i want my Mistress back not just my dom plz help me.

[Four_Inch_Heels]

Aahhh, the "joys" of just starting out! Wouldn't wanna go thru it again for any amount of money.

I have a few questions before I impart My wisdom.

What is the difference between a dom(your spelling of the word) and a Mistress? Why is it your fault you don't have sex?

[sinvore]

Dom Mistress same thing in this case but i also mean to impart the difference from just making coises and adding that loving touch


as for the other I jack off too much something I am not aloud to do as well